Jill Christopher

On the date: September 09, 2010 4:10 am
     

    January 13, 2010

    Twitter Roadmap

    We’re barraged by people telling us what to do, buy, think, and practice to be successful at internet marketing. I’m no different with the exception that I learned from a legend in IM, and in particular Twitter.

    I was just cleaning out some of the dead wood from my account and it came to me that try as I might, 140 characters just isn’t enough to impart the wisdom of Twitter basics.

    What is “dead wood” you ask? Everyone has their own criteria, but to me, if an account hasn’t tweeted in a month or more, they are taking up space. “But isn’t it good to have lots of followers?” you may be thinking. Yes and no. Yes, if numbers is something you brag about to your buddies over a beer, but if you want your followers to like and eventually trust you if you’re promoting something, what’s the sense in having 3000 accounts parked under your name.

    In short, if they aren’t active enough, they’re dead to you as friends and prospects.

    Another way I thin my herd with by profile pic. If it looks like a hooker, a copy of a free image of a person found online, a cartoon or an avatar, they are history. Ever notice sometimes you see the hooker image and the name on the account is Dan Harris. Something suspicious there…

    In short, if the account holder won’t show me who they are, they’re history.

    Lastly, the BIO. If there’s nothing in their bio, why would you want to follow them? If they are serious, they will tell you a little about themselves. No bio = no life or worse – they don;t care enough about Twitter to make the most of if.

    Look, every time I post one of these little hints, I invariably get some pie hole who argues back that they have never done any of these things and are “successful”. The last person that wrote me that had a little over 900 followers. Well, maybe that’s their idea of success, but you know the saying “massive results require massive action”.

    Another “cry baby” told me that it’s easy for “Gurus” to tell you not to blast offers, to make friends using social media because they had “already made it”. Hey folks that kind of logic is what will keep this poor guy broke and struggling for a long time. When I asked if he thought it was possible that gurus made it by making friends and then sales, an odd silence fell over my TweetDeck.

    Look, whatever works for you – works. All I can tell you are some of the things I learned from my guru DO work for me, and they can for you, too. If you want to build a build Twitter presence, just follow these guidelines and see what happens.

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    November 25, 2009

    Men: What Your Gift Choice Really Says

    Filed under: Lessons from Others — Jill @ 5:51 PM

    In the interest of advancing communication between the two sexes this year, I felt it was my obligation to help you out with picking a holiday gift that conveys what you mean to say to the woman you love (or maybe just like). Although the advice here is primarily for dating couples, many truisms carry through to married partners.

    What Makes Me an Expert

    You’re probably thinking “Who does she think she is giving advice like this?” One thing I have over you is that I am a woman. Indeed I am a woman who’s been both elated and dejected by jewelry gifts over many years.

    It all started many years ago with a boyfriend we’ll call “asshole”, I mean “Jack”.  Our first Christmas “Jack” presented me with a Rolex watch. I was a watch aficionado at the time and was thrilled beyond measure. Imagine my surprise when on December 27th I took the elegant timepiece to a jeweler to be sized, and was told “We don’t work on fakes”. My shame was concealed with a stiff smile as I quickly exited the store.

    This brings me to cardinal rule #1: it doesn’t matter if it’s real or fake as long as YOU are real. Had “asshole” told me upfront that it was a – shall we say “replica”, I wouldn’t have been so hurt or mad. Remember guys, the best thing he could have done was to say “It’s not real, but someday I hope to replace it with one that is.”  That simple statement would have turned him from a lying con artist to a charming, lovable teddy bear.

    Since guys tend to want to get to the down and dirty fast, I’ll try to make the next part as short as I can.

    It’s All In the Brain

    Ok, so most of you think that a gift is a gift. That’s how guys generally think. You may buy according the brand name, cost, IV (impressive value), but when it all comes down to it, women look at the meaning behind the obvious (even if in your eyes, there is none).

    So first, remember that there is at least a double meaning to everything. Complex? Perhaps, but with this guide things will become clearer.

    #1 Rule

    No matter what she says, she’s secretly hoping for jewelry.

    I don’t care if you are dead broke and she’s asked for a vacuum cleaner to justify getting anything at all, women want to feel treasured. The one way to do that is with “jewels”. I know you’re thinking “Geez, I about spent my last dime on that Hoover Pet Hair Extractor” she really want. Take my advice and scrape up fifty cents from your truck seats and get her something out of a vending machine that’s shiny.

    She knows you spent everything you had on that cold, unfeeling machine to keep your double wide tidy, but to win her heart, present her with a gold tone plastic heart necklace, and you’ll gain points that will pay dividends.

    Meaning Beyond the Obvious

    So I promised to tell you the secrets behind various gifts of jewelry. Earlier we discussed that cost doesn’t matter, but the symbolism that does.

    Each piece of jewelry has its own kind of on “DaVinci Code” in a woman’s brain. Follow me now because I’m getting to the real “beef” now.

    Basically, your choices are:

    • Watch
    • Bracelet
    • Necklace
    • Earrings
    • Ring
    • Miscellaneous (ankle bracelet, ring for “other” piercings)

    Watches

    Right now as in years past, there are many popular television commercials about giving the “gift of time”. Let me set you straight right now; a watch says “I’m practical, you’re practical, let’s just keep on schedule.” It’s akin to giving a pen/pencil set.

    In a dating scenario a watch conveys some hesitance about the implications of giving jewelry overall. A watch is a bit of a “I know you’re expecting jewelry, but this is as far as I can go.” statement.  A watch is great for keeping a woman at bay, or backing down her expectations. She may smile, even say “I love it”, but if she’s really into you, you’ve probably just broken her heart.

    Bracelets

    As we move up the spectrum of intimacy, a bracelet seems like a good choice. It is not as cold as a watch, and it’s perceived as ornamentation that tenderly grabs her wrist and says “Wait, walk with me”.  Bracelets are not so personal that they say much about the future of the relationship. They say “I like you. I want to hang around and see what might happen”. If you want to convey your fondness as you mull over possible next steps, this is a good bet.

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    October 18, 2009

    Why You Choose Your Parents

    Filed under: Lessons from Others — Jill @ 6:18 PM

    There is a concept in Jewish mystical thought known as gilgul, which can be translated as reincarnation. Gilgul does not necessarily mean that a soul in its entirety has been reincarnated; it may only be a nitzotz, or spark of a soul, that is reincarnated. That is to say that an individual can possess a nitzotz from the soul of someone who has lived previously. Gilgul occurs when the preceding incarnation of that soul has more to accomplish.

    Rabbi Menashe Ben Israel of the 17th century writes that the word, gilgul, in Hebrew letters equals the numerical value of 72, which is also chesed, the Hebrew word for kindness. When this type of numerical connection occurs,it implies a conceptual relationship. In this case, reincarnation is seen as the ultimate kindness, in that a soul is given another chance for the refinement of its past and the spiritual advancement of its future. (more…)

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    September 19, 2009

    In Sadness, Find Joy

    Filed under: Hobby Farm,Horses,Lessons from Others — Tags: , , , , , — Jill @ 7:07 PM

    * The following is a re-post from August 18, 2009. I thought it was important to carry over to my new blog. If you like it, please Digg it, and Subscribe.

    Yesterday I had to make another heart wrenching decision. This time it involved an adopted rescue horse who had lived with us only 13 months. Jesse became sick last Tuesday night and went “down”. Now to all of you who aren’t horse savvy, this is never a good thing. The vet was called out immediately, took blood, administered antibiotics and something for inflammation. The horse rallied and got back on his feet. (more…)

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